Should you use a fake name as a sugar baby?

When some new sugar babies first started sugaring, some of them may use their real first names when speaking to potential sugar daddies.

Real name or fake name?

When it comes to any sort of online dating, safety should be your number one concern. Stay safe in the modern world was as simple as parents warning you in high school, “Don’t drink or do drugs”.

Make sure to know you may have a bad memory, so it was best to lie about as little as possible. Even you want to show your first name, never let others know your last name.

Scammers on sugar dating websites

When an aspiring sugar baby is in desperate need of money, she might be fooled into forking over valuable information at the promise of a big allowance to come. When you’re hungry for anything, it can be hard to keep a clear head.

There are scammers on sugar dating websites who pose as potential sugar daddies to extract personal information from desperate sugar babies.

Sharing your real name with them may end up costing you more than any allowance they promise you’ll receive.

For a sugar baby, you may protect yourself from them very easily by being selective about sharing your personal information such as real names.

Protect Your Personal Information

When you create your sugar baby profile, make sure to never include personal information such as your first name, full name, phone number or address in your profile.

Once messages are exchanged between you and a potential sugar daddy, building trust should be your top priority. Here is the recommened stages from real sugar baby.

1. In the search / m&g phase, I use a fake name, burner number, email in fake name, etc.
2. If a sugar date goes well, I come clean and provide my real first name, and reply to most private questions openly, to the point where I am still not easily identified.
3. Once we start an arrangement, I am definitely identifiable to her. However, I cannot remember that any one of my partners ever asked for my last name, address, etc. However, I assume she knows at that time (maybe saw my last name on my credit card, or whatever). I think it is a non-issue at that stage.

How to respond to "is that a fake name or number"

Some sugar daddies may ask sugar babies if they are using real name/numbers or not. They're probably asking because they just googled you and didn't get anything out of it.

You may tell sugar daddies that fake names and burners numbers are very common. You're not being deceptive, just cautious. If a suar baby has a unique name and it's very easy to find yourself via a google search or linkedin.

Using your real vs fake first name isn’t super important to most sugar daddies. So don't worry about it, any sugar daddy who has done this for a while will expect a fake name like "Jane Doe" isn't your real name.

If they do want to check ID, ask first what they want to see. If it’s your name, up your daily lie meter. If it’s your date of birth, cover the rest of your information.

Sample answers

"My name is a pseudonym necessary for both my security and discretion, and if you call/message the number it will reach me."

When people ask me these things I usually just smile and say "maybe." They kind of get the picture after that. If they're uncomfortable with me using fake names or phone number, then they can take a hike.

Half of the potential sugar daddies I've spoken to use the same precautions of fake first name and google voice. It's a common thing to do.

Fake Sugar Baby Names Masterlist

You can pick a name you have always wanted to have. For example, the names of the girls you were jealous of in high school. As soon as sugar daddies calls you by it,your inner Joanne comes out to scam and scram.

If you’re using your real name, we suggest you switch to one of these baddie options, courtesy of my sugar sisters:

• Victoria
• Ivy
• Celine
• Anastasia
• Kate
• Beverley
• Tiffany
• Adriana
• Jade
• Diana
• Estella
• Ariel
• Rena
• Astrid
• Ruby
• Adelaine

These names have some kind of subliminal messaging to them. Some are classy celebrities, some are high-end brands, and some work perfectly for girls selling the “exotic beauty” fantasy.

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Real name or fake name? Ideas from sugar babies

When I talk to someone new on sugar daddy website, I would tell him my "fake" name, and in person I tell him my real name unless I feel like there's something off. Then I would continue to use my fake name, always try to be safe.

I tend to use my handle which is obviously fake until I feel comfortable enough to use my real name. But I wouldn't start a relationship with someone I wasn't willing to give my real name too.

I also wouldn't feel comfortable with a fake name and playing it off as real. To me I'm trying to have a real relationship even if the foundation us it as friends.

I was a firm believer of compartmentalization and used the same fake name with POTs and SDs. During the screening I almost always find out who they are. If they gave me names or professions that were different from what I found online at M&G, as long as they didn't otherwise give bad vibes, I took it as wanting to be discreet and I left it at that.

I use a fake name. I've only recently told my SD my real name so he could buy plane tickets. He still calls me my fake name lol. I have no idea what his real name is. When he found out my real name he internet stalked me and found out what a geek I was in high school. Also that I lived in the same town as one of his close friends growing up. I don't like him knowing where I grew up, but it's not a huge concern of mine considering I don't live there anymore and my parents are moving from that town soon.

Real name or fake name? Ideas from sugar daddies

As a sugar daddy, I give my real first name immediately. But I also have the most common first name for a male in my age bracket, so I truly don't care that someone knows my first name is Mike.

In the end, I understand that people want to be careful, but giving me a first name is the least of the problems.

My SBs and I have both exchanged real names early in our SRs. I feel like keeping my name from a SB would almost incentivize her to put on her detective cap and discover my secret. I would rather just be totally up front & accountable to her.