Can you be a sugar baby with kids?

There are plenty of benefits if you have a sugar daddy, such as financial stability, more experience and career opportunities.

There are some middle-aged single moms who want to enter the sugar bowl, most of them have the common the quesiton "can you be a sugar baby with kids?".

For some new women who are new to new sugar bowl, there are some common misconceptions about requirements for being a sugar baby.

• Sugar babies have to be a 20-something
• You can not be a sugar baby while have children.

Can you be a sugar baby when you have children? The answer is yes. A woman can be a sugar baby regardless of her life circumstances. Sugaring with kids is no different, it only presents another set of variables that need to be considered in your sugar dating and sugaring arrangements.

Sugaring with kids, is not very different than being in a sugar relationship when you don’t have children.

Countless middle-aged sugar babies with kids have benefited and enriched their lives from sugaring. We have lots of successful sugar relations shared by real sugar babies with kids. Continue to read the success stories in the end of this article.

If you’re considering the sugar lifestyle, don’t let the fact that you have children stop you. Simply consider if you’re able to blend the two in a way that is comfortable for you and then go for it.

Tips on sugar dating when you have children

For the sugar babies with kids, the only problem you may care on is in how it affects your availability. If you have the baby sitters lined up then it's a non issue.

When you set up your arrangement with your sugar daddy, make it on the same days every week so your babysitter can keep their schedule clear on the days you need them, and that you're not constantly scrambling to find care if your sugar daddy chooses a random day to meet.

A woman can be a sugar baby regardless they have children or not. But remember that sugar is part of your life. There are some things to know if you are planning to enter the world of sugar and a single mother sugar baby. However, it is not your entire life. Here are some tips on sugar dating with kids.

Keep sugaring completely separate from family life

For the sugar sugar baby with children, it may or may not be of consequence to your potential sugar daddies to know that you have children.

If you would prefer to be truthful on your profile to your sugar daddy about the fact that you do have children, go ahead. But don’t bring them up unnecessarily or volunteer to have them meet.

If your sugar daddy or potential sugar daddy wants to meet your children you can decline politely. Remember it is you he wants a relationship with and not the kids.

What do you tell your children?

This is a decision that depends on the age of your kids and your relationship with them.

You simply explain to your kids that you are dating. You can choose not reveal in any way you have a sugar daddy.

If your children are older-or if you have a candid dialogue with them regarding sugaring and relationships – then maybe explaining your dating arrangements to your children may not be a bad idea. Try to know what you are comfortable with.

Dealing with Gifts

As a single mother sugar baby, tyr to keep the gifts at a minimum. Recommend your sugar daddy give you an allowance or cash instead of buying you flashy gifts. Staying away from flashy gifts is also a way to keep the gossip at bay and live a life that is realistic to others.

Remember that receiving extra cash from your generous sugar daddy instead of gifts means you can use the money to buy things for the kids or pay bills when you are a bit low on cash.

Single mum, 26, being a sugar baby with kids

Ashley, 26 years old from Boise, Idaho, shared with us about her secret dating arrangement as a sugar baby with kids.

She is a working mother of two, she is dating sugar daddies has helped supplement her income as a single parent.

She joined a sugar daddy site after a string of failed romances with the hopes of alleviating the financial stress that has afflicted her past relationships. Ashley - who still works full time as a technical support assistant - estimates that half her income comes from being a sugar baby.

Her current sugar daddy know her family and has even helped to spoil her son to the good life by renting out an entire Chuck E. Cheese for his birthday.

The benefactor also arranged an 'after party' for her son which featured a bounce house, a magician, and a snow cone machine.

Ashley is keen to keep a distance between her family and her life as a sugar baby. None of her family knows at this point and neither does her kids' father.

Ashley reveals that she isn't ashamed of her dating arrangement and notes that the standard of intimacy in her relationships are the same as any other.

But being a sugar baby isn't a long-term plan for her - particularly if she can't find Mr. Right by doing so.

She will only do it until she is able to go back to school and find a job that will pay enough to make it in this world by herself with her kids.

Don’t let the fact that you have children stop you

When I entered the Sugar Bowl, I did so not so much for financial reasons, but for companionship. I was looking for companionship without the fuss of traditional relationships.

I wanted to be with a man who adored me, found me desirable, wanted to treat me to some of the finer things in life and enjoy being together. I was not looking – nor will I, in the Sugar Bowl, look for a traditional relationship.

If you’re single and considering the sugar lifestyle, don’t let the fact that you have children stop you. Simply consider if you’re able to blend the two in a way that is comfortable for you and then go for it.

Countless single mothers have benefited and enriched their lives from sugaring.

Mother of Two Dates Rich Sugar Daddies for Money

The 37-year-old mum, Nina Peterson makes a living by being a companion to older rich men and has even had her suitors pay for her extreme body modifications which included making her sugar daddies spend more than $100,000 on her cosmetic surgery (tripling her breast size from a 34C to a 34H).

Her young daughters Juliana, 9, and Ymahni, 12 love their mom’s glamorous lifestyle. They are happier with their mother’s arrangements as they are regularly treated to exotic holidays and expensive presents by their mother’s sugar daddies.

I Have a Sugar Daddy So I Can Support My Son

I'm a single mom to six-year-old Carter*, who lost his dad when he died from a heart attack five years ago. We obviously weren't expecting it, and losing a second income, especially in Los Angeles — one of the most expensive cities to live in — made it very difficult for me to provide for Carter.

I could afford the basics on my salary working as a customer service representative, but I was never really able to give him the things I thought he should have — a nicer backpack for school, a fun day at the amusement park, or the latest video game that all his friends were playing.

I decided to give this sugar baby website a try. When I first set up my page, I thought letting guys know right away that I wouldn't be offering sex, and that I had a child.

So I literally had that information on my page. And, of course, I heard crickets those first few weeks. I got shut down. I thought, 'Do I really have to keep him a secret?'. I realize that it's an immediate red flag and turns most people off.

I edited my page so that I seemed like a nicer girl to talk to, and shortly after I did, I met O*. And he was older — in his late 60s, while I'm in my 30s. I had never dated a man that much older than me before, but I reminded myself that this wasn't dating. So why shouldn't I explore the opportunity?

I decided to go for it, and I'm so glad I did. O and I got together for dinner a few times, and he was a complete gentleman — never pressuring me for sexual favors and always respecting my boundaries.

When I told him I had a son — news that made other potential suitors drop me before I could blink — he didn't bat an eyelash. He asked questions about Carter, but didn't ask to meet him. And when I told him one of my hard rules was that this would be a completely separate part of my life, O respected that.

That was about a year ago, and now O is the only sugar daddy that I have. He expects friendship and companionship from me, and wants me to be available whenever he calls.

When we do meet up, it's usually for a nice dinner, and at the end he'll either give me cash — usually around $500 or $600 — or he'll deposit money directly into a separate checking account I have just for this purpose.

If we're talking and I randomly say, "Carter would love to go to the movies," then the next day I'll usually see he's made a deposit. Or sometimes he'll just decide to send money, and he'll shoot me a text saying, "Go take Carter for a nice day" or "Bring Carter to the mall for a little shopping spree." He knows that I almost always use the money exclusively for Carter.

At the end of the day, though, I'll leave it up to him, and for now we'll keep doing what works.

Conclusion

If you are a mother ready to enter the world of sugar, but the only thing holding you back is the thought of your kids, then know that it is going to be fine. Many other single mothers have benefited from the world of sugar and so can you. Go for it.