How to tell a sugar daddy what you want

There comes a moment in every sugar relationship that most sugar babies quietly dread: how to tell a sugar daddy what you want.

Most sugar babies worry about everything from coming off too greedy and scaring off the potential sugar daddy to how much she can reasonably expect given her looks, age, personality, etc.

If the thought of asking a potential sugar daddy for money terrifies you – don’t worry, you’re not alone. And – it’s totally natural. Most of us simply aren’t used to asking for money and don’t have the first clue on how to go about it gracefully.

Set Your Number Range

Determine this number range by yourself. Be honest with yourself as to how much it would take to make yourself feel happy and fulfilled as a sugar baby.

There is no right or wrong amount of allowance as every sugar relationship depends on the needs and wants between the sugar daddies and sugar babies. So the allowance will vary depending on each sugar relationship.

Get Comfortable Asking for What You Want

You have a set allowance range now. Now the key is to get comfortable with it. Why discussing allowance is such an uncomfortable topic is that most people haven’t had much practice in asking for money.

Try it right now – speak your amount out loud to yourself. Repeat it ’til you’re so comfortable with your number range, it seems guaranteed.

When to have the talk

Some sugar babies don't have the allowance talk prior to meeting. Others says they won't have the allowance talk before the meeting because it's impossible to accurately gauge chemistry through a screen.

If you tell a sugar daddy what you want prior to meeting, It saves a lot of time for both themselves and the potential sugar daddies. Some legitimate sugar daddies will appreciate that for not beating around the bush.

Some sugar baby choose to tell a sugar daddy what you want in the meeting. You need to develop your own screening process to determine what works for you.

How to tell a sugar daddy what you want

Think of what you want out of the bowl, how it will be a positive impact on your life and explain it in those terms. There can be multiple reasons.

Even if money is a huge motivation, you want to show that it's more than just about that because no one wants to be used for just money.

Ideally, you should be around for more than just money. Given the right person and dynamic, they can really help you learn and grow as an individual and showing that this is important to you can give your POT some faith in your intentions.

This doesn't mean you don't need to have the direct conversation regarding arrangement specifications but this illustrates the wholesome reasons you're in the bowl and helps soften some of the more direct conversations.

Example might look like:

I finished college and have some debt to take care of. I want to spoil an older, educated gentlemen with my attention. I love dressing up for nights out on the town, or surprising someone with lingerie under otherwise boring clothes for a night in. I was told this is the kind of place where I can find someone who wants what I want. What are you looking for?

I love to travel but have a limited budget for it but would love to share that experience with someone with a similar interest.

I'd love to connect with someone from a different walk of life and expand my horizons

Verdict

Remember that all the tips on "How to tell a sugar daddy what you want" won’t do much good if you don’t put them to use. So get out there and get used to asking for – and getting – what you want!

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