How do you spot a fake sugar daddy?

There are lots of types of fake sugar daddies, salts, and Splenda tricks. How to spot a fake sugar daddy?

They seem too good to be true

From the first email, they seem too good to be true. They promise you everything – rent, car payment, a car, tuition, etc. Remember that the genuine SDs will take it slower and want to get to know you better.

Immediately start asking about sex, what you like, etc

What he is focusing on? If a sugar daddy is keep talking about sex, then you may flash a red flag to him. Some men may ask about sex, what you like after several messages.

Genuine sugar daddies won’t be in a rush – they will want to get to know you. Fake sugar daddies just want to talk about sex and other intimate topics from the beginning.

Wait a few hours or a day or two – they will completely change their discussion topic or disappear altogether. A genuine sugar daddy will be concerned about you and your feelings and your comfort level.

Photos are too professional or posed

Check the photos carefully on the sugar daddy's profile, they might be fake if too professional or posed.

Please do check a few photos of him before agreeing to meet offline. When you meet, please do remember to check if his appearance matches the photos he posted online.

Meeting for coffee/drinks

Most new or relatively new babies don’t see this as a red flag. Any guy who insists on drinks/coffee dates to see if there’s chemistry and are “too busy” to meet for lunch/dinner is a major red flag.

They meet way too many women and wouldn’t be able to focus on you anyway. They are too CHEAP to take time for lunch or dinner and that will reflect in the allowance offer. They can’t AFFORD it. So they will talk a lot but show nothing.

Meeting a potential sugar daddy on any level for the first time should be for a meal and they should shell out money equivalent to what you except your arrangement to be.

Fake sugar daddy will usually be short term, flaky, and per meet until there is “trust” aka never heard from again at that point. (This works for some, but if you’re looking for more, it’s NOT a good idea)

Test Run/Money exchanged AFTER a hookup

Listen, we don’t owe these men anything. We shouldn’t be scared to vocalize how much money and what we want because they are not shy to tell us how much they want sex and how often.

Any gentleman will give a baby money for expenses and their time graciously and DO NOT expect you to put out in return on a first meet. Though that will come later. He will respect you.

Don’t fall for test runs, and if he says he will give you money for a date or whatever get the money at the end of the date/before you get intimate.

Asks for additional sexy pics/Nudes

This shit is such a turn off. Stop responding and block them or just say No and see what their response is. What do you need to see nudes for?

Guys are so pervy. And pic collectors are the worst. NO matter how much money he promises don’t do it, UNLESS he pay pals you money first!

Can’t verify his identity

It’s the age of technology people. You should be able to google him, or you can background check his name and see if he really does “own” that house by the beach and isn’t just renting it. This is a major red flag.

Genuine sugar daddies will demonstrate chivalry

You should be able to tell if he is chivalrous. It may take him a while to figure out how to express the chivalry in ways that you appreciate, but you should see the effort being made in him.

Trust your gut

If something just doesn’t feel right. Leave, delete, skip, hang up… sometimes your [woman’s] intuition is the best judgement, or even the only judgement you can use!

Verdict

Please make sure to understand that these "How to spot a fake sugar daddy" tips are things that are generally true, but we all know there are exceptions.

We don’t want any more babies to go through the pain and heartbreak that a lot of us go through.

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